Why President Obama’s support of marriage equality is a BFD

Nobody puts Barack in a corner

Yesterday I wrote that the issue of same-sex marriage was coming to a crisis for the President, even though he’s running against an opponent who could not be worse on gay marriage — unless he were literally Rick Santorum.

Mitt Romney has called himself “one of the nation’s leading advocates of traditional marriage” and has the embarrassing credentials to back it up. He’s personally funded ads against gay marriage. He’s for a constitutional amendment that would write homophobia in our founding document. Mitt’s even against civil unions, putting him to the right of George W. Bush, Chris Christie, Scott Brown, Mark Kirk and, of course, Dick Cheney.

Today the President announced that he supports same-sex marriage in an interview with ABC News.

The word is the President had planned to announce his support of gay marriage before this year’s Democratic National Convention after discussing the issue with his wife extensively. But Joe Biden’s “gaffe” Sunday sped up the timetable. If so, that makes the VP, the world’s greatest sitcom character. It also makes him personally responsible for a deluge of donations that are sure to start coming into the campaign.

[Note from Chris: this is already happening. Buzzflash reports they received $1 million in donations in just 90 minutes yesterday.]

This is a tremendous victory for the gay and lesbian community who have used their activism to enable this President to make quantum leaps in LGBTQ rights. It’s a classic example of FDR’s famous statement, “I agree with you, I want to do it, now make me do it.” And there’s more to be done.

Adam Serwer points out that the President’s stand is marriage equality federalism. This doesn’t mean he’s against a state’s right to make a decision about traditional marriage.

A president endorsing, even as a “personal position,” marriage equality for gays and lesbians is, as Vice President Joe Biden once said, a big fucking deal. But Obama has endorsed marriage equality federalism—not the notion that marriage for gays and lesbians is a fundamental right guaranteed by the Constitution that can never be taken away.

Because Democrats are Democrats, some argue that this isn’t enough. But no one can doubt it’s a remarkable stand to make in an election year. It also does not prevent action on the federal level as Chris Geidner points out.

Obama’s position now is three-fold: (1) he personally supports same-sex marriage; (2) he believes as a policy matter that state, and not federal, law should define marriages, as it always has been in this country; and (3) he believes that there are federal constitutional limitations on those state decisions.

That’s a lot of nuance.

So, remember that’s there’s no nuance on the other side: Mitt has never wavered on his belief that gays and lesbians should be denied the rights of marriage. It’s the one issue he’s been consistent on and this consistency belies the extremism that’s at the heart of his worldview that limits the American dream to a select few.

Though 32 out of the 33 times gay marriage has been on the ballot it has lost, it is still popular with independent voters. The decision to come out and support same-sex marriage was brave, just as campaigning against gay marriage would be. Don’t expect to see Mitt Romney doing that.

[Photo by the great Anne Savage]
  • karen

    Actually, Romney was for gay rights when he was running against Ted Kennedy for Senate –he once even said he’d be better than Kennedy for gay rights. Here’s a Daily Kos article that includes a link to the article in which Romney made that (too-ridiculous) claim:
    http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/04/07/1081564/-Romney-is-Better-Than-Kennedy-Concerning-Gay-Rights

    Just another flip-flop-flip-flop for Mitts.

    • http://twitter.com/LOLGOP LOLGOP

      For gay rights he is in a broad sense. Never been for marriage equality in any way.

    • http://eclectablog.com Eclectablog

      Go bash the President somewhere else, Bret. I have had it with this bullshit.

      • CB_Demented

        Et tu, Brute?

        So mote it be.

  • Solvo Vivo

    Obama is only supporting gay marriage rights to 1) garner gay votes (small percentage of the populace) and 2) to solicit multi-million dollar campaign donations from uber-rich liberal donors… and like everything else the guy does, he cleverly leaves himself an an out by agreeing that individual states rights to define marriage policy…

    Does anybody see what’s going on here?

    The guy is a walking ambiguity… he’s never decisive about anything. He’s just a BSing kool-aid dispenser. I voted for the guy in ’08. Now, I can’t stand to hear him speak anymore.

    He’s done nothing to bring the country together… By every measure he’s a failure… He’s added 5 trillion to our national debt… 5 trillion dollars! It’ll be 6 trillion by the time he leaves office, or is sworn in again… And that’s his nut… not Bush’s… 6 trillion dollars is over 1/3 of our TOTAL national debt… in just 4 years! Holy cow… this guy is the worst president in the history of our Democratic party…

    I never thought I’d say this, but Obama is an embarrasment to our party. I’ll bet there are millions of our fellow party members that feel the same way, and they show their disdain in the voting booth in November.

    Obama’s support of marriage equality is a BFD?

    More Obama Kool-aid my friends. Obama, once again, is trying to cover all the bases.

    I’d like to see the president that I voted for take a definitive stand on SOMETHING before he leaves office!

    His support of marriage equality is not a BFD… or a BD… and the way he carefully worded it… it not even a D !!

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  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jani-Ayers/100001667696986 Jani Ayers

    Obama has been an embarrasment to everyone from day one. Those of you who will vote for him again are complete idiots!! When something is not working you make changes. You don’t continue down the same path leading us into a government controlled gutter. Obama wants everyone to be poor and under the goverments thumb. He is doing everything he can to keep business down thus employment down. He hates people that are successful. Reason, they won’t vote for him If you are an Obama voter you are either a looter, moocher or parasite. Which is it????

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